Every day, I learn more and more about being a parent…..
Being a dad (or a mom, for that matter) is a continuous journey of discovery…..because, to be totally honest….kids do some fucking weird things….and, you have to work out how to deal with situations you NEVER imagined you’d come up against.
For example, I never thought i’d EVER have to say the words, “Edie, can you please watch Bridie whilst I make the dinner….because, I’ve just found her eating a handful of plasterboard”.
And, I never imagined I’d have to consistently tell my daughter to “stop eating tissues”
Like I say…..kids are odd…..and, it’s a VERY steep learning curve.
Our Edie is going through a VERY weird stage at the moment…..yes, she’s cheeky…..yes, she rolls her eyes and stomps off when we ask her to do something ‘helpful’, but, by and large, she’s a really good girl…..
However…..
She appears to have turned into a compulsive liar over the last few weeks, which is both hilarious and frustrating all at the same time.
Example #1:
Me
“Edie, what’s that in your mouth?”
Edie:
“Nothing” (She has a mouthful of chewed up tissue, and is surrounded by pieces of torn up tissues)
Me:
“Are you eating tissues again?…..Edie, I told you about that earlier….it’s disgusting….throw it away”
Edie:
“I’M NOT EATING TISSUES”
Me
“Edie….I can see the tissues IN YOUR MOUTH….You’re surrounded by bits of tissue….I’ve just physically witnessed you eating tissues….with my actual eyes…..do you think i’m stupid?”
At this point, Edie jumps up…glares at me…stomps off into the kitchen…opens the bin and, dumps the chewed up glob of mucus ridden Kleenex in the bin……she says NOTHING to me for 10 minutes……like it’s my fault!
Example #2:
Me:
“Edie, can you please remember to flush the toilet properly when you go for a poo?”
Edie:
“I did flush the toilet”
Me:
“Edie….you haven’t flushed it love….I’m looking directly at your poo now….”
Edie:
“How do you know it’s my poo?”
Me:
“I broke it open, and it had your name written through the middle of it…..”
Edie:
“Did you?”
Me:
“Errrr…..NO!….You said you had sweetcorn for dinner…..and guess what…..it’s got sweetcorn in it”
Edie:
“It’s not mine”
At this point, I give in, and flush the turd away myself……
Example #3:
Me:
“Jesus, Edie….have you just farted?”
Edie:
“No”
Me:
“I just heard you…..it came out of your bum….”
Edie:
“I DIDN’T”
Me:
“Are you able to ‘throw your farts’…..are you a ‘fart ventriloquist?’…..I heard it…..AND, I can smell it…..to be fair, I can see it….it’s like a cloud of fart…..you need a poo…..go to the toilet!”
Edie:
“I don’t need a poo, daddy!!”
10 minutes later, Edie says, “I need a poo”……at this point, I shake my head and wonder where I went wrong.
I’ve asked other parents, and, by all accounts, this is a ‘normal’ stage of development….which is comforting to know.
Although, I have a horrible feeling it’ll get progressively worse before it gets better…….
So…..that’s my 8-year-old…..but, what about my one-year-old?
“But, Rich”, I hear you say……“A one-year-old can’t be weird…..she’s only one….plus….what’s all this about nipples?”
Well….
Our Bridie has developed a fascination for my ‘man breasts’.
Like all men, the first thing I do when I get home, is strip down to my underpants…..most evenings, i’ll sit down on the settee and have a nice cuddle with the baby.
She sits on my lap and studiously probes my nipples…..
She subsequently found out that the left nipple (Moob #1) makes a sound like a door bell when she pushes it…..”Ding Dong”.
She then examines the right nipple (Moob #2) and finds it hilarious that this one appears to blow a raspberry when she pushes it…..”Frrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrp”
So, there she is…..staring at my tits, and pushing them with her tiny pokey finger……
“Ding dong”……”Frrrrrrrrrrrrrrp”…….”Ding dong”…..”Frrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrp”……”Ding dong”
This goes on for approximately 15 minutes.
Then, when my guard is down…..her tiny little fingers form into a clamp…..she digs her sharp little nails into the soft doughy boob flesh, and won’t let go.
My eyes instantly fill with tears…..she only releases the droopy nork from her vice-like grip when I squeal like a teenage girl at a Justin Bieber concert.
Through my tears…..I see her face…..she appears to be laughing…..
She IS laughing…..
She’s laughing at my pain…..
She’s only 1.
I’m fucked aren’t I?